Thursday, November 4, 2010

Can An Open Marriage Save A Relationship?


I'm kind of obsessed with open marriages. Not sure why but the idea intrigues me. Currently, I am writing about a couple that explores an open marriage so it's literally on my mind all the time. The idea of monogamy is a little tricky for me. I like the concept, believe in the commitment, and want someone who is willing to try it with me. On the other hand, Do I believe love is ruined or tainted by having sex with another person? Not at all. I've seen it too many times with men who love the crap about of their wives/girlfriends and the idea of having sex with another woman doesn't taint that feeling for them. Fair? Probably not... but it's real.

The truth is what we have placed together as a traditional marriage isn't necessarily working. People expect to get married, never have attraction towards another and more importantly, start to live a completely different life then they did when they were dating or single. I think the idea of propriety tends to ruin relationships. Often when people get married and have been married for a couple years, they stop trying. The ring on the finger solicits a sense of comfort that is first enticing but often becomes stale and typical. Therefore the idea of still needing to entice your partner feels like a positive aspect of an open marriage. But the real question is can everyone really separate love and sex? All these questions are swirling around in my head as I patch together the life of these two people and the information on the Internet is endless.

Today I found this: A blog originally started by a couple in a happy and fulfilled open marriage that ended in less then a year with a divorce. Then it got me thinking... is the need for the open marriage, the comfortablity, the boredom the real true sign of a failing relationship?

Love to get your thoughts.

20 comments:

  1. I just broke up with my girlfriend a couple months back. I really love her and want to get her back. Its been about 4 months since we broke up. We had a fight and she said she loved me a lot before the fight and after the fight she said she did not have the same feelings for me anymore. I really need help to get her back so i contacted a spell caster on the internet and i explain my problems to him and he cast a spell for me and guarantee me of three days that she will come back to me,to my surprise the third day she come back to me and now we are getting married.i just want to say thank you altimatespelltemple@yahoo.com for helping me to get my ex girlfriend back to me and i am totally grateful.just in case you also need his help you can contact him on Email altimatespelltemple@yahoo.com he can also render help to you if you need him to.....

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    1. i want to thank Dr Zaba for bringing back my ex husband, we broke up for more than 4 month and he told me that he never want to see me in his life again. i love him so much to the extend that i could not do any thing again, i was confused and depress due to the love i had for him.i did everything i could do to have him come back to me but all went in vain. so i decided to contact a spell caster, i did not believe in spell casting i just want to try it may be it would work out for me. i contacted Dr Zaba for help, he told me that he have to cast a love spell on him, i told him to start it. after 3 days my husband called me and started to apologize for leaving me and also he told me that he still love me. i was very happy and i thank Dr Zaba for helping me get back my ex husband back to my hands. his spell is the the greatest all over the world, it was the love spell he cast on my ex that make him come back to me. all you ladies who want back the ex husband back i want you to contact Dr Zaba at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct at (ZABASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM) OR (Zabaspellhelp@yahoo.com) and get your problems solve or you can call his cell pheno on +2348056391583

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  2. My Name is Joyce. I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my boyfriend back and he means so much to me.. The boy i want to get marred to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another girl..,When i called him he never picked my calls, he deleted me on his Facebook and he changed his Facebook status from engaged to Single...when i went to his place of work he told his boss he don't want to see me.. I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore, my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have him back, all did not work out until i met a prophet when i Traveled to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back.. I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i didn't believe that in the first place. but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my boyfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets. i was amazed when i heard that from him.. he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days.. then i travel back to Us the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells, he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My boyfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all he had done ..he said, he never knew what he's doing and he sudden behavior was not intentional and he promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from him and when we ended the call, i called the man and told him my boyfriend called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time.. and when its Sunday, they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working.. My life is back into shape, i have my man back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too. This man is really powerful.. if we have up to 20 people like him in the world, the world would have been a better place.. he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now.. Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help. you can mail him to Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world.. he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too.. good luck: Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com.Once Again His Email Address Is :Dr.jartospellcaster@gmail.com

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  3. My Name is Jenny ken. I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum because I never thought I will have my boyfriend back and her means so much to me. My ex-boyfriend that I want to get married to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another girl, When I called him, he never picked my calls, her deleted me on her face book and changed her relationship status to Single. I lost my job as a result of this because I can’t get myself anymore, my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life. I tried all I could do to have him back to all did not work out until I met DR. IFA OLUKO on a forum. I explained my problem and all that I have passed through in getting him back and how I lost my job, so DR. IFA OLUKO told me her is going to help me. I don't believe that in the first place but she swore she will help me out and she told me the reason why my boyfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets. I was amazed when i heard that from her, she said she will cast a spell for me and I will see the results within 48 hours. To my greatest surprise my boyfriend called me at exactly 2 days and apologies for all he had done, he said he never knew what he is doing and her sudden behaviour was not intentional and he promised not to do hurt again. It was like I am dreaming when I heard that from him and when we ended the call, I called and told her my boyfriend called and apologized, she told that I haven't seen anything yet, she said I will also get my job back in 3 days’ time. Within 3 days’ time my Director called me at my place of work that I should resume working immediately. My life is back into shape, I have my boyfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and have my job back too. DR. IFA OLUKO is really powerful. If we have up to 20 people like her in the world, the world would have been a better place. she has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now. I am posting to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting DR. IFA OLUKO for help. You can mail her dr.ifaolukun@gmail.com,

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  4. My name is Micheal Smith, and I base in USA...My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr osoba, which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Sonia,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr osoba 's e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before Dr osoba , is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try High osobaspelltemple@gmail.com anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his contact: osobaspelltemple@gmail.com

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  5. I want to use this medium to tell the world about Doctor Jatto who helped me in getting my lover back with his powerful spell, my ex and i where having misunderstanding which led to our breakup though i went to beg her several times to please forgive and accept me back because i know i offended her but each time i went i always feel more deeply in pain and agony because she always walk out on me and would not want to listen to what i have to tell but on i faithful day as i was browsing i came arose a testimony of a woman whose problem was more than mine and yet Doctor Jatto helped her with his spell so i was happy and also contacted Doctor Jatto for help via email and then told him my story but the only thing he said was that i will wipe you tear with my spell so lucky for me everything want well just as he promised and right now i have got my fiance back and we are both living happily. there is nothing Doctor Jatto can not do with is spell and just as promise my self i will keep testifying on the internet of how Doctor Jatto helped me.Are your problem greater that mine or less i give you 100% guarantee that Doctor Jatto will put an end to it with his powerful spell, contact Doctor Jatto for help Via email drjattosplltemple@gmail.com

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  6. What do i stand for in this world without my lover by my side?, This was the taught that was running through my mind when my lover departed from me. You know one thing i believe in is that once you are having problems that are bringing you down God always use people to raise you up. In my case it was Dr.Zadson that was used in helping me get my lover back, Since the help of Dr.Zadson i must say that my relationship has been filled with more love and as a matter of fact my lover never does a thing without me. So you see this is the more reason why i must thank Dr.Zadson and the more reason why i must put his details on this site to enable other people contact him. Call +2348071222070 or via email eduduzadsontemple@gmail.com

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  7. i want to thank Dr Zaba for bringing back my ex husband, we broke up for more than 4 month and he told me that he never want to see me in his life again. i love him so much to the extend that i could not do any thing again, i was confused and depress due to the love i had for him.i did everything i could do to have him come back to me but all went in vain. so i decided to contact a spell caster, i did not believe in spell casting i just want to try it may be it would work out for me. i contacted Dr Zaba for help, he told me that he have to cast a love spell on him, i told him to start it. after 3 days my husband called me and started to apologize for leaving me and also he told me that he still love me. i was very happy and i thank Dr Zaba for helping me get back my ex husband back to my hands. his spell is the the greatest all over the world, it was the love spell he cast on my ex that make him come back to me. all you ladies who want back the ex husband back i want you to contact Dr Zaba at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct at (ZABASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM) OR (Zabaspellhelp@yahoo.com) and get your problems solve or you can call his cell pheno on +2348056391583

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  8. Am Joyce Morgan After being in relationship with him for nine years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is ekpikuspellhomeofgrace@gmail.com

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  9. Please be careful here nobody can help you here or even suggest how you can get your ex or love back,any testimonies of most spell caster here must be ignore.because most of them are scams. I have been married to my Husband for 16 years now, but all of a sudden he started to act funny, and i tried to find out what was wrong and he told me that he was tired of me which hit me like a big shock and told me to leave him alone. Three days later, my husband came home with another woman and when i confronted him, he beats me up and sent me packing. I pleaded and pleaded with my Husband but it seems i was making things worse, so i packed my thing and went to stay with my Mom who told me to be calm that everything will be fine. I did all i could to get my husband back but to know avail until i came across a comment on you-tube on how a man got his wife back with the help of a spell and i had to read his comment which motivated me to get in contact with the spell caster. I told the spell caster all my problems and that i want my husband back so desperately, he then told me that he was going to help cast the spell to get my husband back within 24 hours but i never believed all what he said because. So he told me to send some vital information's and the sum of $170 to enable him get the items needed for the spell casting i also did send the money thou i was scared because i believed i have lost my money, but to my greatest surprise the next day in the morning i heard a knock on my door and i went to check who it was and behold it was my husband who immediately went on his knees crying for forgiveness and told me that he wants me back home and promise he will never hurt my feelings anymore. I thought i was hallucinating until my husband joined me in packing my things and took me back home. Now i believed that the only spell caster who help you get your ex back is this Dr. Okirika and you can contact him via email: { Okirikaspiritualhindustemple@gmail.com }

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  10. PLEASE BEWARE OF SCAMS TRYING TO GET YOUR EX BACK?
    I was married to my husband for 10 years and we were both bless with two children, living together as one love, until two months ago when things was no longer the way it was [ when he lost his job ]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he started sleeping outside our matrimonial home which really drives me crazy. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave him the job. I was really devastated and tried everything to make my husband comes back home but all to no avail, i became shattered and keep doing my best to get my husband back. Few weeks later i was on my Facebook chatting with my mum regarding the present situation, i came across the comment made by Mrs Brenzel Briditte on you tube that Dr. Okirika helped her bring back her husband with the sum of $170. So i copied the email address and contacted him few hours later he really replied me and i told him about the issue am having with my husband and he told me to send information's and along with the sum of $170 to help me get some items needed for the items but i was skeptical because i have heard where a lot of people loose their money to scammers .But due to the fact that i wanted my husband back, i had no choice than to give it a try after seeing Brenzel's Comment. And without hesitation, i sent everything along with the money. Two days later in the evening, i was at home preparing dinner for my kids when i heard a knock on my door and on getting there i thought i was hallucinating when i saw my husband standing before me and asked if he could come inside and urgently i opened and let him in while he went on his knees begging for forgiveness that he wants to come back home and pleaded that he will never hurt my feelings again. To make every story short, me and my Husband are now back together happy more than ever before. Please do not be deceived. Contact Dr.Okirika and ready to pay $170 and you will have your ex back. Contact email: okirikaspiritualhindustemple@gmail.com

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  11. Am Tanya Albert from United State I was heartbroken that my boyfriend decided to leave the relationship, so I had the Retrieve A Lover spell cast. with Dr Ekpiku Within a week of the spell casting, he called "just to talk." After some pleasant talks and catching up, he asked to see me again. I felt he had started to turn around. I decided to give him a chance just to see. now we are happily married and He is absolutely crazy about me, i thank Dr Ekpiku for bringing back my ex, if you need his help you can contact him via email:Ekpikuspelltemple@live.com

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  12. BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS WITH MY 7 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL I SAW A POST ABOUT MAMA ANITA SPELL AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HER MY LAST TRAIL.SHE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND $380 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HER A TRY SO I CALLED HER AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE $380 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS SHE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PM THAT DAY I SAW MY WIFE ON LINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFF-LINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ON LINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL MAMA ANITA THE NEXT DAY THANKING HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HER AND THANK HER AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT MY WIFE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A TRUE LOVE SPELL THEN CONTACT MAMA ANITA (mamaanita.lovespellsolution@gmail.com)

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  13. My name is Mrs jennet from Chicago am 25 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail, i cry and cry seeking for help, i discussed it with my best friend Allix and she promise to help me. She told me of a man called DR Erigo, she told me he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot solve and she told me how he has help countless number of people in restoring their relationship. I was really convince, I quickly contacted his email address at Erigospellcaster@gmail.com . I explain all my problem to him, he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, and it really happen as he said, i was very surprise, this is so amazing. To God be the glory our relationship is now very tight and we both live happily again. If you having similar problem, Contact him now(Erigospellcaster@gmail.com) and get your problem solve once and for all. i am a living testimony to it. 1) If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3) You want to be promoted in your office. (4) You want women/men to run after you. (5) If you want a child. (6) You want to be rich. (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8) If you need financial assistance. (9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money. (10)if you want to stop your divorce. (11)if you want to divorce your husband. (12)if you want your wishes to be granted. once again the email address is Erigospellcaster@gmail.com contact him immediately.

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  14. Hello I am HELEN TRACY,i live in USA,I am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how I got my husband back.I was going crazy mad and confuse when my husband left me for another girl last month, But when I meet a friend that introduce me to DR.OTONU the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to DR.OTONU about how my ex love left me and also how I needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that I have come to the right place were I will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what I need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my lovely husband called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were I needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that I have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR.OTONU at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on: (otonuspelltemple@gmail.com) or (otonuspelltemple@outlook.com) you can also call him on telephone +2348169616855 and get your problems solve like me

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  16. I’m so excited because my broken marriage has been restored & my husband is back after he left me and our 2 kids for another woman. After 8 years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that DR.Osasu can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before,All thanks to DR.Osasu . he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that DR.Osasu real and powerful spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at:Account:
    drosasu25@gmail.com , you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2347064365391,THANKS TO DR. Osasu

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    Special thanks to a powerful spell caster Called Dr. Odion who brought my lost lover back with 48hours and since i contact him through email: odionspelltemple@gmail.com or WhatsApp +2347038832903. my life has turn around for good, me and my husband are the best couple in world  since i contacted this man for help through email: odionspelltemple@gmail.com or WhatsApp +2347038832903. for fast response believe me that you will find happiness when this man for work you...

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